Being unfaithful to your spouse is a devastating to your relationship, especially if you have children together!
Recently, a Malaysian man put his wife on blast for allegedly having an affair with another man. He posted several half-naked photos on Facebook claiming that his wife of 12 years had sent these raunchy images to her “manstress” (the male counterpart to a mistress).
The couple is blessed with a one-year-old child, and the wife is 4 months pregnant with their second child.
The husband, Tarenst Tay, owns a cafe business while the wife, Yuri works as a nurse. As an excellent wife, Yuri spent her time helping out her husband with his business accounts after her working hours. Such a loving wife.
But Tarenst’s mother claimed that Yuri isn’t feminine enough.
After alleging that Yuri was cheating on him, Tarenst kicked his wife and child out of their home, so she returned to her family home.
Here is where things get twisted!
Yuri was never the cheater, it was Tarenst who has a mistress! His mother apparently accepted the mistress, Winnie Lim, and was even willing to take care of her and her child from a previous marriage, besides that, Winnie is also pregnant! Their affair has been going on for quite a while now.
It turns out that Winnie had overspent Tarenst’s money to the point that he had to borrow money from his wife and her family. Yuri’s father lend RM18,000 while her mother lends RM7,000, Yuri’s second youngest sister contributed RM5,000, and her youngest sister lends SGD1,000 (RM3,000). Adding the money that Yuri had given him, it was more than RM50,000 (at this time, Yuri hasn’t learned of the affair)!
What’s more appalling is that he never spend a single cent for his own child with Yuri, he only gave her RM60 a week for petrol. But he brought Winnie to Taiwan with the money.
Tarenst also threatened Yuri that if she doesn’t agree to a divorce, the house downpayment that Yuri’s mother paid for (RM60,000) will be divided equally.
Oh my goodness, how can you treat your wife and her family like this? Don’t you have any dignity? She probably wouldn’t even get back the money after she divorced him. As a wife and a mother, she doesn’t want to separate her children from their father, which is why she doesn’t want to divorce him.
But he is a heartless husband for throwing his wife and children away for a new girl. I believe that karma will come and bite you in the butt soon enough.
It’s not worth it staying with a man that is unfaithful. Of course, the children will be affected by it, but it’s better than to have a dysfunctional family, right?
What’s your take on this? What is the best option for Yuri? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below!
(Source: The Coverage Mandarin)